By Kirsten OKENWA
We know you; you like to frown your face and appear uninterested in all that happens at home or school. You lock yourself in your room, or, you hide in a corner all by yourself, just doing your own thing. Sometimes you are overwhelmed by feelings of sadness and a general apathy for life.
You are not alone. Teenagers the world over have emotional issues. Some are worse than the others. That is not to say that teens are an unhappy bunch; you just have your moments. We get concerned when these 'moments ' are affecting your relationships, joy, school work and zest for life.
Teens should be vibrant and positive, full of energy and curiosity. But, when you are often sad and disillusioned over family problems, school challenges, or mistakes you made, it is time to seek help. You must not suffer alone for the world is on your side. You are special and precious to the society, with so much to give. Think about all the young people like you doing big things, or just simply doing everyday stuff with a happy attitude. You shouldn't be different.
I met a young boy who had gotten his girlfriend pregnant. It was as if he should jump off one of the Lagos bridges. Good thing was that he confided in an adult who got them help. The girlfriend later put to bed and the child was lovingly offered for adoption to an older couple who had no kids. These teens learnt from their errors: sex is a responsibility and must not be toyed with.
What ails you? Why are you so sad? Cheer up!! There is help. If you can't talk to your parents, I dare say that you will find a reliable adult to share your challenges with. You can also reach us at: teenschatandstuff@gmail.com.
Tomorrow will be greater for you. Have hope, my friend.
We know you; you like to frown your face and appear uninterested in all that happens at home or school. You lock yourself in your room, or, you hide in a corner all by yourself, just doing your own thing. Sometimes you are overwhelmed by feelings of sadness and a general apathy for life.
You are not alone. Teenagers the world over have emotional issues. Some are worse than the others. That is not to say that teens are an unhappy bunch; you just have your moments. We get concerned when these 'moments ' are affecting your relationships, joy, school work and zest for life.
Teens should be vibrant and positive, full of energy and curiosity. But, when you are often sad and disillusioned over family problems, school challenges, or mistakes you made, it is time to seek help. You must not suffer alone for the world is on your side. You are special and precious to the society, with so much to give. Think about all the young people like you doing big things, or just simply doing everyday stuff with a happy attitude. You shouldn't be different.
I met a young boy who had gotten his girlfriend pregnant. It was as if he should jump off one of the Lagos bridges. Good thing was that he confided in an adult who got them help. The girlfriend later put to bed and the child was lovingly offered for adoption to an older couple who had no kids. These teens learnt from their errors: sex is a responsibility and must not be toyed with.
What ails you? Why are you so sad? Cheer up!! There is help. If you can't talk to your parents, I dare say that you will find a reliable adult to share your challenges with. You can also reach us at: teenschatandstuff@gmail.com.
Tomorrow will be greater for you. Have hope, my friend.
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